Jeff and I have been together for a month now and we have been inseparable since the day we have met. I never thought that I could spend so much of my time with another human being without feeling claustrophobic. In the past, I was really protective of my personal space. I couldn't stand it when a guy would leave anything in my apartment that would be a reminder of him. It felt too much like they were moving into my personal space. Not so with Jeff. I have even made room for his personal belongings at my place.
I can remember a time when I was seeing someone else who used to leave his stuff in my apartment and I would freak out. I was too selfish to give up anything of mine for a guy. I guess I never really cared for or was in love with anyone else in the past. It's different for me now. I can happily walk around my apartment and love to see Jeff's things hanging around.
Realistically, I know that this high that we are on will eventually calm down, but my feelings for him continue to grow and deepen. If there is such a thing as a soul mate, then I have found mine. I actually feel optimistic about the future, and I have to say that sharing my life with someone this special makes each day terrific. I'll take the good and the bad with him which I was not willing to do with anyone else. When things got heated in the least bit with other men, I would run away as fast as I could. I'm in this relationship for the long haul - something that I could not say about any of the others.
I am happy for you... :-))
ReplyDeleteWell.. You "merged" with Jeff and your blog has died! Not a single character posted for the past month. Your blog was much more interesting when you were (desperately) single!
ReplyDeleteYou can not be having so much fun with Jeff for so long.. Throw us some stories.
Thank you, NYM.
ReplyDeleteAnd to my "irritated" one: there is more to follow! I promise!!
Good luck to you both as we are not all fortunate in being with the one we want let alone settling down with one another....good luck to you both!
ReplyDeleteThanks anonymous
ReplyDeleteI's strange isn't it? i never believed it when old folk would say "you'll know when you have met the right one" but you do...i met a guy from TP last year who i think i have fallen for. Sadly it wasn't meant to be and although i have tried to meet other guys none of them can match him. I keep praying that by some sort of divine intervention that we have another go...but it's wishful thinking on my part. Now you have it make sure you work at it, go with the flow and live for the day as BIG T once said ENJOY!
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